Sex And The Memory of Sexual Experience
Recent scientific research is beginning to investigate the relationships between experience and the memories of experience. Researchers are seeing that certain areas of the brain light up depending on...
View ArticleValentines: On The Importance Of Sensate Focus On Awareness (Video)
I'm lying on the beach at Mauna Kea on the Big Island of Hawai'i. This beach and the one just to the South of it, Hapuna, vie for the distinction of being the most beautiful beaches in all of the...
View ArticleThe Curious Association Of The G-Spot And The Upper Palate
I discovered this dual connection between the mouth and the yoni quite a few years back and have never heard anyone else refer to it before. I love oral sex and had wondered why that might be so. Yes,...
View ArticleOrgasms For Men: Belly Breathing And Tantric Sex (VIDEO)
The Tantrics and Taoists, in particular, have developed, over thousands of years, simple, relatively easy and obviously fun techniques to help men train themselves to last longer, choose when they...
View ArticleI’ll Have What She’s Having: How Mirror Neurons and Music Increase Pleasure
I went to see Bonnie Raitt and Taj Mahal the other night in Oakland California. The setting was beautiful and the crowd was thrilled with the music and the vibes. Late in the program, as they sang a...
View ArticleWhat Do Singing, Throats And The Vagus Nerve Have To Do With Orgasm?
It's fairly gorgeous in Sonoma County this time of year and the days are getting warmer. This afternoon I rode in my car with my windows down and the radio blasting. The song was Tina Turner's "What's...
View ArticleCelibacy and Tantric Practices
I often receive questions that I think would benefit others to read about. Here’s is a new one from a visitor to this site: I recently took a vow of celibacy, but am empathic. I want to work with my …...
View ArticleThe Yoga of Sex Muscles
I began doing Kegels many years ago because I wanted to tighten my muscles for more "feeling" during sex. Then I began to get into the more subtle facets of using those built-up muscles to explore the...
View ArticleYoni Worship: Ask Suzie
In any Tantric practice, involving partners, it isn’t necessary to have your partner even be aware of what you are practicing. It helps tremendously, of course, but it isn’t necessary. Both of you will...
View ArticleSexuality Is a Complicated Issue
Sexuality is a complicated issue. Because sex, like almost everything in life, is based on a neuro chemical cocktail that includes addictive neurotransmitters, we can always expect the full spectrum of...
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